MELISSA MAYA

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My Vision for Partnership

If - upon reading this - you recognize yourself in these words - please let yourself be tenderly known to me (write to : melissa@elemental-eros.com )

PLAY : COMMUNITY : INTIMACY : FEARLESSNESS

WE CONSPIRE TO CO-INSPIRE ONE ANOTHER.

WE SHARE PARALLELS IN CREATING BEAUTY, LIBERATING PEOPLE & CO-CREATING COMMUNITY. 

COMMUNICATION, CLARITY & TRANSPARENCY COME INTUITIVELY TO US & FEEL IMPORTANT TO US.

WE TAKE JOY IN THE WAY THAT OUR CONNECTION SOOTHES OUR NERVOUS SYSTEM/S. 

WE PRIORITISE SLOWING DOWN & LISTENING TOGETHER. 

WE EXPLORE INTIMACY FROM A PLACE OF AUTHENTIC CURIOSITY - FREE FROM GENDERED CONSTRUCTS OF HOW OUR INTIMACY ‘SHOULD’ LOOK LIKE  - OUR INTIMACY IS DEEP, RIDICULOUS & TRANSFORMATIVE. 

TO BE EMBODIED & EXPRESSIVE THROUGH THE MEDIUM OF OUR BODIES FEELS IMPORTANT TO BOTH OF US - WE CARVE OUT TIME FOR NON-VERBAL PHYSICAL EXPRESSION.

WE HAVE A PRIMARY PARTNERSHIP - BUILT ON TRUST, COMMUNICATION & A SHARED CURIOSITY FOR LIFE - WHILST WE CREATE PERMISSION TO EXPLORE, WE ALLOW OUR MAIN ROMANTIC FOCUS TO BE WITH EACH OTHER. 

WE ARE UPFRONT WITH OTHER LOVERS ABOUT OUR PRIMARY PARTNERSHIP & ITS IMPORTANCE TO US. WE ARE EXCITED TO INTRODUCE EACH OTHER AS PARTNERS TO OUR OTHER BELOVEDS & OUR OPEN-RELATING SERVES AS A BASE FOR TRANSPARENCY, TRUST & COMMUNITY. 

WE ARE ECSTATIC AS FUCK ABOUT SHARING AN INNER CIRCLE OF FRIENDS & BELOVEDS IN A WAY THAT NURTURES OUR CELEBRATION OF EACHOTHER IN OUR LIVES. WE SUPPORT EACH OTHER TO BE LOYAL & DEVOTIONAL IN OUR FRIENDSHIPS. 

WE TAKE PRIDE IN THE SPACES THAT WE RESIDE IN. THERE IS RECIPROCATED DESIRE TO CREATE A LOVING HOME TOGETHER & WE ALLOW OURSELVES TO FANTASISE ABOUT HAVING CHILDREN, ANIMALS & LIVING IN THE NATURE. 

WE ARE BOTH PASSIONATE ABOUT CREATING POSITIVE, LIBERATING EXPERIENCES FOR PEOPLE.

WE TAKE GREAT CARE OF OUR BODIES - WE DANCE, DO BODYWORK & KNOW HOW TO NOURISH OUR BODIES WELL THROUGH GOOD HEALTH, MOVEMENT & MEDICINE. WE INSPIRE EACH OTHER TO LOVE OUR BODIES EVEN MORE.

RITUAL IS IMPORTANT TO BOTH OF US & WE ACTIVELY ENGAGE WITH THE CYCLICAL NATURE OF LIFE & LIVING. BOTH MY BLEED & MOODS ARE HONORED AS SACRED & WE LEARN TOGETHER HOW TO HONOR THOSE CYCLES IN EACHOTHER. 

WE ARE SELF RESPONSIBLE IN OUR OWN SELF-HEALING. WHEN WE NOTICE THAT WE ARE NOT WELL, WE SEEK OUT A THERAPIST & DO NOT DEPEND ON THE RELATIONSHIP TO BE OUR MAIN SOURCE OF HEALING & SELF-DEVELOPMENT. 

WE HAVE A POWERFUL, NURTURING & INSPIRED PRESENCE AS BOTH INDIVIDUALS & AS A COUPLE IN OUR COMMUNITY.  

WE RESPOND TO EACH OTHER WITH PUNCTUALITY & EASE - TEXTS & EMAILS ARE RESPONDED TO IN THE SAME DAY. TO BE IMPECCABLE WITH OUR WORD IS MUTUALLY IMPORTANT. 

WE ARE SELF-SUFFICIENT & ALREADY INDEPENDENTLY SUCCESSFUL FINANCIALLY. WE ENJOY SPENDING MONEY ON THINGS THAT BRING US JOY, NOURISH OUR SOUL & WE ENJOY INVESTING IN OUR SHARED PLEASURES. 

YOU ARE READY TO HAVE A DEVOTIONAL PRIMARY PARTNERSHIP & WISH TO CREATE SECURE ATTACHMENT.

Jun 10, 2020