the urban business myth of consistency is starving your feminine.
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the urban business myth of consistency is starving your feminine.

a personal journal entry in reflection from the time I’ve been spending in integration since my rebranding…from ELEMENTAL EROS to WILDLY DEVOTIONAL.

THE FEMININE STARVES IN CONSISTENCY & THRIVES IN WILD DEVOTION.

Stop forcing your feminine business into a masculine mould of consistency, that she will never thrive in…

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My Vision for Partnership
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My Vision for Partnership

If - upon reading this - you recognize yourself in these words - please let yourself be tenderly known to me (write to : melissa@elemental-eros.com).

PLAY : COMMUNITY : INTIMACY : FEARLESSNESS

WE CONSPIRE TO CO-INSPIRE ONE ANOTHER (…)

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Can we talk about polyamory?
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Can we talk about polyamory?

Can I please urge any of you folks who have a couples dating profile on any kind of dating app to understand about trauma before agreeing to bring in an extra person into your constellation.

So let's get right to it : I've been open relating for over 9 years; I was always in long-term partnerships that were monogam-ish until I consciously made the decision to expand my comfort zone & practice open relating with people in an intentional way.

And it has been quite the journey…

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Indie Magazine Interview
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Indie Magazine Interview

“She is a feminist who creates fetish wear; a vegan who has dedicated her work to leather; she is a nature lover who has found her home in Berlin.

Melissa Tofton is a woman of opposites that come together to produce a harmonious entity, because she has made her own rules based on what her inner voice and lucid thoughts tell her.

The English-born designer couldn’t care less about fulfilling societal expectations, instead defining a rebellious genre of spirituality, which champions the beauty of the expression of the true self.”

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Liebe Machen Podcast Interview
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Liebe Machen Podcast Interview

I had the pleasure to feature on The Liebe Machen podcast.

Here is the episode in full on spotify:

https://open.spotify.com/episode/6sUdYo5tTs3X6fGSH8XkV6?si=igxYWlCaSES4S_0ZqYzSBg

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